they received when they struggled to conform to these ideals. In Western culture, it is not as
accepted to be an effeminate male. In Asian and European culture, those standards are more
fluid, with males having more close bonds with other males. Male K-Pop idols are seen hugging,
sharing beds, wearing makeup, and dyeing their hair. In comparison to Western culture where
men are traditionally expected to act strong and unemotional, male idols are encouraged to
perform aegyo (애교), which means behaving in a flirtatious, coquettish manner. For male
K-Pop idols, their fanbase in both Korea and America is mainly women. For women K-Pop idols
their fan base in Korea is primarily male, but in America it is mainly women.
This breakup of fan genders means a disproportionate amount of support for women
versus male idols. K-Pop male idols receive a lot of hate from Westernized ideals. They often
get victimized from the necessity of acting cute and portraying a more loveable identity.
However, no Asian male is going to bash the K-Pop male idols for not being more manly. In
Asian society, they aren’t going to be hated for being too pretty or being too soft and elegant.
For women K-Pop idols, they receive a lot more support from Western culture and more hate
from Asian society culture. As a woman in K-Pop, there are extreme beauty standards regarding
weight and physical beauty. It is standard to encourage cosmetic appearance alterations and
weight-loss diets. Women K-Pop idols face a lot of stigmas and demands for a certain weight or
specific look. So while in the Western world gaining weight and becoming “curvy” is a good thing
(think of the Kim Kardashian body), in Asian culture being paper-thin and stick-like is the ideal.
Weight gain is portrayed so negatively in Korean and Asian cultures, whereas in the United
States and in Western culture no one will think the artist should be less successful due to the
fact they look different.
In looking at the gender disproportion in K-Pop, I found that the main difference lies in
what the Idols’ support system looks like. The targeted audience of K-Pop really affected the
way the idols were received and represented. Male K-Pop idols were marketed towards women
in both Asia and America. Whereas women K-Pop idols were marketed to men in Asia and