Consider opening a savings account for an “emergency or rainy day fund”
As a couple, one goal should be to have enough in this account to handle an unplanned event or emergency.
Three months of earned income is generally recommended; but, the stability and dependability of your
combined income should be taken into account when deciding on how much is enough. The two of you can
arrive at a monthly amount to save that is aordable and sustainable.
Update your beneciaries
If you have IRAs, annuities and life insurance policies, you may want to review and update the beneciary
information. If you participate in an employer-sponsored retirement plan, you’ll need to name your spouse as
the beneciary.
Take care of your future selves now
Be sure to contribute to your employer-sponsored
retirement plan and/or IRA. Every dollar saved now may
provide you with several dollars you can use to maintain
your dignity and lifestyle during your retirement years.
For employer-sponsored retirement plans, it’s generally
recommended that you contribute a minimum of 15% of
your combined gross pay, or the maximum amount allowed
by the IRS.
Where to Turn
www.michigan.gov/difs
www.annualcreditreport.com
www.transunion.com
www.equifax.com
www.experian.com
Money and Marriage: Let’s Talk About It
Financial matters are one of the top reasons for
conicts in a marriage. If you’re not on common
ground on money management, you’ll have unstable
ground in your marriage. You don’t have to view and
manage money in the same way, but it’s important
to understand and feel comfortable with your
dierences.
Money issues can be especially complex for older
couples who are getting married. You and your
partner likely have ingrained money habits that could
be quite similar or hugely dierent. You may have
wide disparities in your debts and assets. You may
have children from a previous relationship and want
to make special allowances for them.
For example, when marrying for the second time, one
partner may want to ensure his or her grown children
inherit life insurance proceeds left by a deceased
previous spouse. There are various legal structures
to consider in this case, such as setting up a trust for
the children or using transfer-on-death provisions.
Discuss a prenuptial agreement, which can also be
a useful tool in situations where there are children
from a previous relationship or one partner has
substantially more assets. An attorney can provide
appropriate advice on these kinds of situations to
help make sure everyone’s wishes are honored.
Sometimes one member of the marrying couple
owes back taxes, and the other does not want to
be liable for the obligation. In that situation, it is
recommended to use the “married, ling separately”
option allowed by the IRS and to keep nances
separate until the back taxes are resolved.
Couples often benet from discussing money matters
like these with a trusted nancial advisor. The advisor
can serve as an objective, third-party who provides
expertise while keeping the conversation focused,
positive, and less emotional.
Money is a very personal and emotional topic, but so
is marriage. If you hope to share the rest of your life
with someone, get started on a solid footing with a
clear understanding of your nancial life together.
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