workeverydayworthwhile.MarkZuckerberggavemetheopportunity
ofalifetimeandhascontinuedtoinspireandsupportmeeversince.He
has taught me by his example to chart my own course and has
encouragedmetodowhatIwoulddoifIwerenotafraid.
Iamblessedtobesurroundedbylovingfriendsthroughthisproject
andallelse.I am so grateful for mychildhoodfriendsEveGreenbarg,
Mindy Levy, Jami Passer, Beth Redlich, Elise Scheck, Pam Srebrenik,
Brook Rose, Merle Safer-stein, and Amy Trachter; and my closest
adulthood friends Carrie Weber, Marne Levine, Phil Deutch, Katie and
ScottMitic,CraigandKirstenNevill-Manning,AdamFreed,JoelKaplan,
Clia and Scott Tierney, Kim Jabal, Lorna Borenstein, David Lawee,
Chamath Palihapitiya, Zander Lurie, Kim Keating, Diana Farrell, Scott
Pearson,LoriTalingting,andLarryBrilliant.
The boundless support of my family has been the foundation of my
life. My deepest gratitude and love to my parents Adele and Joel
Sandberg,mybrotherDavidSandberg,mysisterMichelleSandberg,my
mother-in-law Paula Goldberg, my siblings-in-law Amy Schefler, Marc
Bodnick, and Rob and Leslye Goldberg, and my goddaughter Elise
Geithner.
Thisbookdoesnotjustrecommendtruepartnership;itisaproductof
severaltruepartnerships.ColinSummers,Nell’shusband,sloweddown
his architecture career to become the primary caregiver for their
children. In twenty years, his encouragement of her career has never
faltered.Hiscontributionstothismissionincludedreadingmanydrafts
ofthisbook,discussingitscontentsovercountlessmeals,andattending
several school events alone. Whenever someone suggests that mothers
are better suited to raising children, Nell knows in the deepest way
possiblethatfatherscanparentwithasmuchlove,devotion,andjoy.
Scott Saywell, Marianne’s husband, encouraged her to take on this
projectdespiteherinitialreluctance.Whenmyoffercame,shehadher
ownbooktowriteandasecondbabywithfoodallergieswhowasnot
sleeping well. Scott insisted they would figure out a way to make it
work, then reorganized his schedule so thatit did. He was more than
justsupportive,hewasexcitedforMarianne.
And finally, I want to thank my truly amazing husband, Dave
Goldberg. Dave is my best friend, closest advisor, dedicated coparent,
andtheloveofmylife.Webothknewthatmywritingthisbookwould